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Sunday, December 7, 2025

Camila Cabello - Never Be the Same

Music Appreciation

I'll be honest, it was Camila Cabello that I was a fan of when she was in the girl group Fifth Harmony. Her looks, sensuality, and voice attracted me. So, naturally, I became a bigger fan when she went solo and debut her studio album, Camila, in 2018.

On December 7, 2017, Camila Cabello released “Never Be the Same” as a promotional single ahead of her debut solo album Camila. The song was written by Cabello alongside producers and writers including Noonie Bao and Sasha Sloan as well as Frank Dukes and the production duo Jarami. This creative team helped shape what became one of Cabello’s most successful solo tracks.

Lyrically and musically, the track presents a mid-tempo ballad grounded in pop and electro-R&B elements. The lyrics convey love as an addictive, almost drug-like experience, with lines such as “Just one hit of you, I knew I’ll never ever, ever be the same," underlining the sense of surrender and transformation that the protagonist experiences. 

The official music video, directed by Grant Singer and released March 8, 2018, marries polished fashion-forward scenes with raw, intimate hotel-room footage of Cabello. In contrast to the couture shots of Cabello standing on cliffs, submerged in water, or encased in oversized glass boxes, we also see her in a white robe in a hotel room telling the cameraman “Stop, turn it off,” suggesting a tension between public image and private self. 


Sources:

Wikipedia

https://www.iheart.com/content/2018-03-08-watch-camila-cabello-shine-in-her-dazzling-video-for-never-be-the-same

https://www.thefader.com/2017/12/07/camila-cabello-new-singles-never-be-the-same-real-friends

https://camilacabello.fandom.com/wiki/Never_Be_the_Same

Friday, December 5, 2025

Gumiho Hannya

Model Appreciation

There’s something undeniably captivating about Gumiho Hannya—the kind of allure that stops your scroll mid-swipe. It starts with her striking green eyes, the kind that seem to see right through you, paired with her smooth ivory skin that glows even in the dim light of a convention floor. 

Whether she’s channeling a fierce demon queen or a playful anime heroine, she brings each character to life with a presence that’s both enchanting and just the right amount of mischievous.

Beyond the lens, Gumiho is a full-time creator with a dreamer’s heart and a gamer’s soul. Her feed is a treasure chest of meticulously crafted cosplays, nerdy nods to League of Legends and anime, and glimpses into her snake-filled sanctuary of pets with names straight out of Westeros. 

She’s the type who could slay a photoshoot in one moment and nerd out about folklore or psychology in the next—and yes, she might throw in a dance break or a cat cuddle session for good measure.

What makes Gumiho Hannya even more fun to follow is that she doesn’t just cosplay—she world-builds. Her fusion of Korean and Japanese mythology in her name is no accident: it’s a love letter to fantasy, storytelling, and transformation. 








Sources:

https://www.instagram.com/gumihohannya/

https://www.youtube.com/@GumihoHannya

https://www.famousbirthdays.com/people/gumiho-hannya.html

https://www.twitch.tv/gumihohannya/about

Thursday, December 4, 2025

Somewhere Between Baby Einstein and Baby Chaos

I think many of us, at some point in our new-parent lives, have shared a moment like the one beautifully captured by cartoonist and illustrator R. Kikuo Johnson on the cover of The New Yorker.

For me, it stirred memories of my ex-wife, our tiny Maltese, and me collapsed on our beaten-up couch, watching our toddler stretch out on a red-and-black checkered mat — the kind supposedly designed to boost focus and attention. Back then, we were convinced high-contrast toys would unlock hidden baby genius. For a while, our living room looked like a black-and-white art installation with splashes of red.

Of course, that didn’t last. Within months, the floor vanished beneath a sea of toys — stuffed animals, musical gadgets, and plastic contraptions that promised to make our kid smarter, stronger, and possibly bilingual by age two. Let me clarify something: I bought toys I would’ve enjoyed as a toddler. My wife, on the other hand, stuck to toys and books that actually nurtured brain development. Together, we struck a balance — somewhere between baby Einstein and baby chaos.


by R Kikuo Johnson (@r_kikuo_johnson)


Tuesday, December 2, 2025

The Einstein of Sex by Daniel Brook

After reading a review in The New Yorker about Daniel Brook’s new biography of Dr. Magnus Hirschfeld, I felt compelled to purchase and read the book. Why? I’m the proud father of a transgender 21-year-old woman who came out to her mom and me in high school. I didn’t react perfectly in that moment — I didn’t yet understand what she needed to hear. Years of reading and learning about sexuality and gender have shown me that identity exists on a spectrum, and much of that understanding traces back to Dr. Magnus Hirschfeld at the turn of the 20th century.

Daniel Brook’s The Einstein of Sex offers a vivid, accessible portrait of the German-Jewish physician whose groundbreaking work reshaped early 20th-century thinking on sexuality, gender, and civil rights. Brook follows Hirschfeld’s development from his Prussian upbringing to becoming one of Europe’s boldest medical thinkers. In 1896, Hirschfeld published his first gay-rights pamphlet asserting that sexual orientation existed along a spectrum — a radical idea for its time. Over the next decade, he expanded this view, proposing that every person carries a mix of masculine and feminine traits. This framework opened the door to thinking about transgender identity long before the language existed.

Brook shows how Hirschfeld’s science and activism were intertwined. He founded the Scientific-Humanitarian Committee in 1897, the world’s first LGBTQ-rights organization, and spent decades fighting Paragraph 175, the German law criminalizing sex between men. His pamphlet What People Should Know About the Third Sex appealed to logic, empathy, and justice, arguing that same-sex love was equally capable of purity and nobility.

In 1919, Hirschfeld established the Institute for Sexual Science, home to the first gender-affirming surgeries, a global research library, and a museum that became a celebrated Weimar destination. As a public figure, he appeared in newsreels, lectured worldwide, and used his influence to advocate for inclusion in the military, medicine, and public life.

His travels strengthened his belief that identity — including race — is relative rather than fixed. In exile, he observed how different societies placed him in inconsistent racial categories, reinforcing his view that race was a social invention, not a biological fact. This embrace of relativity, echoed in his theories of sex and gender, earned him the moniker “Einstein of Sex,” a comparison he accepted with some reluctance.

As Brook documents, the Nazis targeted Hirschfeld relentlessly, nearly killed him, destroyed his institute, and burned his books in 1933. Though his life’s work was nearly erased, his ideas endured. Hirschfeld’s message remains strikingly relevant as today’s debates over gender, sexuality, censorship, and rising authoritarianism mirror the tensions of his era. Brook’s book reintroduces readers to the Hirschfeld Scale, his insistence on the fluid nature of identity, and his belief in the dignity of queer and trans lives.

My verdict: The Einstein of Sex is well worth reading — whether you’re part of the LGBTQ+ community, an ally, or simply someone seeking to better understand the science of sex and gender.



Sources:

https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2025/10/06/the-einstein-of-sex-stan-and-gus-heart-the-lover-muscle-man

https://www.amazon.com/Einstein-Sex-Magnus-Hirschfeld-Visionary/dp/1324007249/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1DZSRAE2IS7Q6&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.QLLohB_pvDrmg-I1BuKKiw.7TqeHSjRv92Wzasrb6bheZIs9pp5sX43q5OWoZ7IXls&dib_tag=se&keywords=the+einstein+of+sex+by+daniel+brook&qid=1763845313&sprefix=The+Einstein+of+Sex+%2Caps%2C130&sr=8-1

Monday, December 1, 2025

Jennifer Mackay

Model Appreciation

European model Jennifer Mackay (also known as Tetiana Herasymenko), born on December 1, 1992 in Ukraine, made her debut on Met Art in 2012 at just nineteen. Standing 5'7" with blue eyes and blonde hair, her modeling career was brief yet memorable—spanning 15 covers, 12 photo sets, and 3 videos over three years.

For me, her beauty and composure are truly captivating. In her Met Art biography, Jennifer shared her love for spending time with friends, relaxing in coffee shops, reading fiction, mountain biking, swimming, and playing squash. I can easily imagine sitting in a quiet café, glancing over to see a striking blonde absorbed in a novel—perhaps something by Lesya Ukrainka—and feeling admiration and being entranced.










Sources:

https://www.metart.com/model/jennifer-mackay/

https://www.babepedia.com/babe/Jennifer_Mackay

https://www.indexxx.com/m/jennifer-mackay

https://www.freeones.com/jennifer-mackay

https://babesrater.com/infinite-scroll/7096/jennifer-mackay

https://hotnessrater.com/infinite-scroll/7096/jennifer-mackay